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If you aren't the one driving the boat, then you need to read this... |
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"The Things You Don't Know
About Boating Could Fill A Book
...Here It Is!" - First Mate 101
How-To Wisdom From A Boating Veteran,
First Mate 101 Has The Confidence-Building Detail
You Need To Stop Worrying And Start Boating.
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From:
Brenda Dawson
Dear First Mate,
We've all seen them. Couples who have turned boating into an
incredible dance, a sight to behold.
Even when docking, they seem to anticipate each others next step. They
put on a wonderful performance, communicating with unspoken
ease as they bring their boat expertly into the slip.
This is a couple with a First Mate and Captain who are in synch with
each other. And, I'm happy to say, that's been my experience boating with
my husband Doug for more than 40 years now.
As you'll read further down, the inspiration to write this book came
about because of an an eye-opening and shocking experience
when I attended a FirstMate course. From that experience, I knew that
there is a sea of "reluctant boaters" who are deeply wanting
and needing to know how to be a FirstMate.
The Must-Have, How-To On Being
A First Rate First Mate Is Now Yours--Guaranteed!
"In Fact, You WILL Learn At Least One Thing That Is Way More Valuable
Than The Price Of This Book In 30 Days, Or I'll Refund Every Penny You
Paid And Even Let You Keep The Bonus Just For Checking It Out— Guaranteed!"
| "I've been boating for
years and there are
tips in here that I'm now using. I thought
I knew how to wash dishes aboard,
Brenda's way is better!" |
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Written For A First Mate By
A First Mate

I've been in the boat business literally my whole
adult life. When I married Doug, I married a man who is 5th
generation in the boating business. Expectations were high that
I would become an expert boater in my own right.
The Story Of A FirstMate Course
Gone Terribly Wrong
Earlier, I mentioned my shocking experience when I attended
a FirstMate course. Here's the rest of that story...
Wanting to learn some neat new tips and tricks and meet
other FirstMates, I signed up for a First Mate seminar being hosted
by a local Yachting Club.
What was intended to be a First Mate course quickly
deteriorated into more of a marriage counselling session covering
such topics as "how to make a contract with your husband that he'll
return to the dock if you feel uncomfortable."
From that seminar, which was almost all women, I realized
just how many women are afraid when underway
and want to turn back or are brand new to boating and feel like the
proverbial "fish out of water".
When I got home, I was quite upset. I had gone to this
seminar wanting to learn some neat tips & tricks; I didn't need
a marriage counselling session!
After reflecting on my experience in that room, I came
to the realization that these women weren't
First Mates at all! They were guests!
When asked to hand the fenders or pull the halyards, they didn't know
what to do and were barked instructions.
What was upsetting me was that
I knew these women could easily become confident First Mates and be
a full-fledged partner in boating.
In fact, with the right information, these women could
become the on-board experts on how to enjoy boating—teaching
their husbands a thing or two about boating!
You've probably heard the old joke: "men who get
lost will keep driving around trying to find their way while women will
stop and ask for directions". Well, I don't know if that's totally
true or not, but I do know that those who ask
for directions get there faster!

No Marriage Counselling Here!
Just The Information You Need
To Get Your Sea Legs And Be
A Confident First Mate.
This book is so much more than how to be a First Mate.
- Claim your place on board and be the kind of First Mate who
knows how to "dance" with their Captain.
- maximize the limited space on your boat.
- Keep ice for 11 days in a cooler.
- Dozens of innovative tips on how to store everything from food, equipment,
bedding, furniture to all the other comforts of home that you want to
take boating.
- Work together with the Captain to dock your boat safely, confidently
(and without yelling at each other!)
- Work the ropes— the anchor, bow line, stern line, spring lines,
tow line and even rafting lines (and know what the heck all of those
lines are!)
- Present yourself as that incredible couple to the others in the marina.
(sure beats being exposed as a "newbie")
- Learn what the correct "boating etiquette" is when docked
in the harbour.
- manage and store canvas to keep it long-living and quick to put up
and take down (great for when bugs come!)
- how to deal with the unique challenges of preparing meals on board
and turn meal time into a special time
- deal with the bugs!
- a complete lesson on footwear (who would've thought!)
And much, much more

Brenda's First Mate 101 is easy to read and
understand and should provide a ready reference for any novice sailor.
In reality, there is only one CAPTAIN on board but Brenda's book emphasizes
the need and importance of a confident First Mate. "Brah Voh" Brenda.
First Mate 101 is a real life saver, confidence builder and cross-referencing
tool.
It has a wealth of 'hands-0n information. It is
hard to put down.
It encourages improvement of knot tying, is an organizational
tool and a real 'wake-up' call. I feel the need to hone my new found
skills.
Kathy Gardner, Meaford ON
Brenda, your book "First Mate 101" has
been very helpful as we are getting ready to go on a ten day trip and
will be trying your suggestion in October. Ron is doing great
with his driving, your e-Lesson has helped a great deal. Our Oct. trip
will be a new type of trip for us, and your teachings will help us greatly.
Thank you again,
Judy CA
Taking Time To Enjoy The Ride...
afterall, that's what it's all about!
| "I'm so glad I had Brenda
to show me the ropes
of running a Ship-Shape boat...weekends boating
are so much more fun now"
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| "Brenda,
Thank you for your prompt reply. Much appreciated. It seems
hard to find good customer service these days. I'm glad to
see it still alive and well. Merry Christmas to you and yours."
Joshua, BC
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